Stop assuming that just because I'm there I'll do it, stop assuming that I'll always be willing to make the tea though I've spent longer in work most than you do. All it requires is to take the damn stuff out of the freezer and defrost it, heat it up and put spaghetti on. That's all.

Stop assuming that I'll do it, you're the one that ways spag bol for tea so why don't you do something about it for a change. I spent a whole night making the stuff and freezing it for you so you'll be able to sort tea out once in a while and do you bother? No you don't. You just assume that I'll still sort everything out.

That's the problem, you always assume things when it comes to me. You take what I do for granted and just assume that I'll keep doing it. When I ask you to do it there's usually a problem or else I'm the one that gets told to calm down and stop making such a fuss and all I do is ask why can't you do it for a change. If I was raising my voice or something then yes I can understand your reaction but I don't, I just ask why you can't do it for a change. Nothing wrong with that is there?

We've been through this before. You've said you'll make more of an effort. You said you'd try harder for me. You haven't. What's it going to take to get some help from you sometimes when we need to eat? I cook the stuff and freeze it, I buy things that are frozen, and I buy plenty of tins and packets of things so you don't have to cook from fresh, you just need to defrost or reheat or open up and it's there ready to eat, but you don't. You just assume that I'll sort it.

Just as I finish writing this and am about to post it you ring me back and say work has called and asked you to come in tonight. I don't have a problem with this but you seem to think that I do. I don't have a problem with you working, but I do have a problem with once again being left alone, having to fend for myself, not having my car so I can't do the post tonight, having to walk home, having to do whatever needs doing tonight by myself and if it's not done right or well enough to your standards I get gurned at, but if I don't do it then I'll still get gurned at. I can't win with you.

Once again you've avoided making the dinner. This happened last time you were to make the tea, work called you in. Pretty convenient isn't it. Ok well that's petty of me but that's how I'm feeling, I know you didn't get work to call on purpose so you can avoid helping me out but I'm feeling a little low and miserable and want to find fault in everything at the mo.